I’ve just made a big mistake. Normally, I would save this kind of emo entry for my Livejournal, since the majority of the time, I end up marking entries like these as private shortly after I’ve written them- after I’ve calmed down.
However, this time may be different, because my mistake involves me discarding the calming force in my life.
I don’t want to get into specifics. For personal reasons (even though, this is my personal site, some things are just better left to obscurity, I guess). But I would like to point out that I am an idiot. Or, at least, I behaved in an idiotic and irrational way.
I don’t even know if it is worth trying to fix, since the outcome could be better for all involved parties.
So, what do you think? Is it worth trying to fix something, or to just leave it be? I think that the way things currently stand could be better. But at the same time, they could completely destroy something that I thought to be pretty special. In the end, it’s not entirely my choice, and I do have a sneaking suspicion that the other involved party may be quite pleased with the current arrangement, and content to be away from such a mélange of disaster. But I could be wrong. I am wrong about a lot of stuff. I’m generally confused and frustrated. I used to have someone that would help me with that, but I’ve pushed them away.
I’m sorry to be so incoherent and sloppy. I just would like to know if you think that it is worth it to fix something that could end badly anyway?
I do hope that everything works out, but my honest advice is that once you try to fix things this time, which I do recommend you try again, that if they don’t reciprocate and value what you have you accept that maybe it was worth more to you and that you deserve better.
Just try to fix things, because who knows, things may turn out for the better
Fix things that make you a better person. The question is, will it make you a better person? It’s something you have to ask yourself.
Try to fix things, if they end up feeling like this situation is better left alone then at least you know you tried.
Sometimes people just want you to make an effort to show them that you are willing to try and fix things to make it work.
Try to fix things, I say. Life’s too short to have the ‘what ifs’, you know. But when things become too overwhelming, maybe you should just move on. I think in cases like these, you have to listen to your heart. I really hope everything works out for you.
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Huh? I must say that by not knowing ANYTHING it’s hard to tell, but I’m one to always try fixing things (including things that don’t need fixing, but that’s another story). If you think you did something wrong, you should go ahead and “fix” it. If you think someone else did something wrong, you should go ahead and tell him/her/it.
I’m with Julie on this. Without knowing anything, it’s so hard to tell… But if you think you did something wrong, try to fix it. I always feel better when I work to alleviate problems.
Good luck with whatever you decide to do.
Passive resignation is never an attractive option. If there’s something that can be done to reduce the negative emotions/events arising from this incident, do it.
Aww, now I really want to know what happened
To be honest, I don’t know if I’d try to fix it, especially if I felt that it would be unwelcome. I know I’d at least wait a while for it to blow over a bit.
Good luck! <3
Some things just cannot be fixed; or, if they can, they have changed irrevocably and will never return to their original state. Sometimes it’s worth thinking through if the effort of fixing it is actually worth it and if any good will come of it other than assuaging self-guilt.
Whatever it is though, Aisling, g’luck.
I think trying to resolve things is the best option in anything because if it works everything’s great, and if it doesn’t then you can have some consolation knowing that you tried! Passiveness should never be considered, but it’s all up to you, I guess! Good luck!
Go for it, because if it DOES go bad in the end, at least you’ll know you did everything to try to resolve it.
This may sound vain, but if you were by any chance taling about me in that post, then no, I’m not happy with the current situation, as I’ve tried to tell you before. So if you want it to change, let me know.
Lissa
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